In this episode of "Daddy Prep," host Lamar delves into the topic of why babies often exhibit challenging behavior. He emphasizes that the reason behind their actions is not rooted in misbehavior or spoiling but rather in their developing brains. Lamar highlights the importance of recognizing this fact in order to respond effectively as parents.
Understanding Child Brain Development:
Lamar underscores that a child's brain is still developing and they lack an innate sense of right and wrong. Children do not possess the ability to control impulses and emotions until around three and a half years of age, according to child development experts. As a result, parents should avoid expecting very young children to comprehend and conform to behavioral norms.
Teaching Behavioral Control:
Lamar introduces the analogy of the behavioral part of a child's brain being like a stoplight. Green symbolizes exploration and curiosity, while red signifies pausing to think and consider actions. Adults are accustomed to using their red light to make decisions. However, children consistently operate in "green light" mode, exploring and interacting with the world around them.
The Three T's: Tune In, Talk More, Take Turns:
Lamar introduces the concept of the "Three T's," which involves tuning in to a child's behavior, engaging in open communication, and taking turns in interactions. He draws attention to a valuable resource called "Three T's" that provides guidance on parenting and child development. This approach helps reinforce a child's ability to transition from impulsive reactions to controlled behavior.
Application of the Three T's:
Lamar gives examples of using the Three T's technique in real-life situations. He shares that as a father, when his son engages in potentially dangerous behavior, he tunes in to what his child is doing, talks to him about why certain actions are inappropriate, and takes turns with him to reinforce learning. Through consistent practice of the Three T's, Lamar's son begins to understand and respond to these interactions.
Lamar wraps up the episode by emphasizing the importance of understanding a child's brain development stage when responding to their behavior. He encourages parents to utilize the Three T's technique—tuning in, talking more, and taking turns—to guide their child's learning process. Lamar hints at exploring the use of humor as a form of discipline in an upcoming episode and invites listeners to share their thoughts and reviews.
In this episode of "Daddy Prep," host Lamar delves into the topic of why babies often exhibit challenging behavior. He emphasizes that the reason behind their actions is not rooted in misbehavior or spoiling but rather in their developing brains. Lamar highlights the importance of recognizing this fact in order to respond effectively as parents.
Understanding Child Brain Development:
Lamar underscores that a child's brain is still developing and they lack an innate sense of right and wrong. Children do not possess the ability to control impulses and emotions until around three and a half years of age, according to child development experts. As a result, parents should avoid expecting very young children to comprehend and conform to behavioral norms.
Teaching Behavioral Control:
Lamar introduces the analogy of the behavioral part of a child's brain being like a stoplight. Green symbolizes exploration and curiosity, while red signifies pausing to think and consider actions. Adults are accustomed to using their red light to make decisions. However, children consistently operate in "green light" mode, exploring and interacting with the world around them.
The Three T's: Tune In, Talk More, Take Turns:
Lamar introduces the concept of the "Three T's," which involves tuning in to a child's behavior, engaging in open communication, and taking turns in interactions. He draws attention to a valuable resource called "Three T's" that provides guidance on parenting and child development. This approach helps reinforce a child's ability to transition from impulsive reactions to controlled behavior.
Application of the Three T's:
Lamar gives examples of using the Three T's technique in real-life situations. He shares that as a father, when his son engages in potentially dangerous behavior, he tunes in to what his child is doing, talks to him about why certain actions are inappropriate, and takes turns with him to reinforce learning. Through consistent practice of the Three T's, Lamar's son begins to understand and respond to these interactions.
Lamar wraps up the episode by emphasizing the importance of understanding a child's brain development stage when responding to their behavior. He encourages parents to utilize the Three T's technique—tuning in, talking more, and taking turns—to guide their child's learning process. Lamar hints at exploring the use of humor as a form of discipline in an upcoming episode and invites listeners to share their thoughts and reviews.