Are you having a hard time dealing with your toddler's tantrums?

Have you ever wondered why your little one cannot seem to control their emotions during meltdowns?

Well, it's because their Upstairs Brain, which helps us control our impulses, emotions, and actions, is not yet fully developed. Research shows that this part of the brain is still in the early stages of development, especially for toddlers.

So, when they want something they cannot have, they react with their Downstairs Brain, which is reactive, impulsive, and driven by feelings and desires.

We sometimes expect our toddlers to have more self-control, but we must understand that they're not yet capable of doing so. Instead of getting frustrated and angry, try to remind yourself of what they're capable of and respond with calmness and love.

Here are some tips on how to effectively deal with your toddler's meltdowns: